In African society, women are taught to keep themselves holy and acceptable to whoever will marry them, while the men are allowed to roam and think freely without as much moral burden.
Times have changed with this generation, you can’t drag or eliminate a woman’s confidence and poise by playing the slut shaming card, especially not when both of you were in mischief together.
Society is evolving and gender stereotypes are blurring rapidly. Women are becoming more vocal and defensive of their actions and unapologetic about societal labels that seem to favour one gender.